Self-Care Tips for Managing Stress and Anxiety

Over the years I have learnt that taking a bit of time out for self-care is hugely important and beneficial. Especially when you’re at your lowest points, even though this is often the hardest time to choose to put yourself first.

I’ve put together some of my favourite self-care tips to share with you, but I would love to hear yours too. Leave a comment in the box below and let me know how you unwind.

Peppermint Tea

I find peppermint tea to be the coconut oil of the tea world! I use it as a cure for everything. The menthol found in peppermint tea acts as a muscle relaxant which will help to relieve any tension in your body and alleviate stress. I tend to drink peppermint tea when I have stomach cramps. It doesn’t get rid of them completely, but it definitely helps. The menthol found in peppermint tea has also been proven to help you have a more peaceful nights sleep.

Listen to Music

The type of music I listen to when I’m anxious depends on the time of day. In the morning I like to listen to dance music to get me “pumped up” for the day ahead. At nighttime I prefer to listen to something quieter and more soothing. There’s a lovely piece of music that I like to listen to if my anxieties are stopping me from sleeping. It’s called “A Lovely Place to Be” by Patrick O’Hearn. I came across this by chance one evening when I was listening to a “Sleep Playlist” on Spotify. It’s about 8 minutes long and I’m usually asleep before it’s over.

Go for a Walk

Even if it’s just a quick walk around the block, the fresh air will do a world of good and help you to think more clearly.

Read blog posts about positive mental health

I really like reading about other people’s experiences of anxiety as it’s a nice reminder that you’re not the only person experiencing this. This tip might not help for everyone as I know some people would rather do anything but read about more anxiety – but it really helps for me.


There’s plenty of really good guided meditations on YouTube. However, if that isn’t your thing, there’s an app you can download called Calm which has music and nature sounds (wind, rain, crickets etc) which are also really great for getting off to sleep. The app itself is free to download and with the free version you can access most of the basic features but if you really want to get the most out of the app – it costs £9.99 per month.

Plan Something to Look Forward To

Things may feel helpless now but it’s always nice to know that you have something to get you through the day or week. It doesn’t need to be something big. You could be making your favourite meal for dinner or catching up on a TV show. Just something that you enjoy and that makes you feel good.

A Small Achievement

Fix a small annoyance at home that’s been nagging you–something that’s been on your to-do list for weeks. You’d be surprised how good it feels to get that ticked off!

Reach out to someone you trust

This could be a friend, family member, teacher, a medical professional or just anyone you feel comfortable talking to! I know more than anyone that this is easier said than done but talking through your problems, big or small, can lift a huge weight off your mind.

Self Care Tips for Managing Stress and Anxiety

If you would like to read more posts about mental health and related topics, please let me know in the comments box.


  1. J
    November 6, 2017 / 1:43 pm

    Great post! Self care should get stressed to people more. I schedule self care into my planner so it doesn’t seem so overwhelming

    • megansays
      November 6, 2017 / 1:49 pm

      Absolutely – even if it’s just for a few minutes a day – it can make a huge difference.

      Thank you so much for reading x

  2. November 6, 2017 / 1:53 pm

    These are great and so important to remember. I have a daughter who suffers with anxiety and depression and her music is her absolute must-have. She loves tea too, maybe I’ll have to convince her to stick to peppermint more.

    • megansays
      November 6, 2017 / 1:54 pm

      Sending lots of love to your daughter! I really hope that some of these tips help. I absolutely love tea and coffee but I find that the caffeine makes the sleep deprivation worse – herbal is the way to go!

      Thank you so much for reading x

  3. November 6, 2017 / 3:42 pm

    Love this! 5 and 6 are my favorite ways. Even a 5-minute meditation just observing your breath helps.

    • megansays
      November 6, 2017 / 4:22 pm

      Definitely Even a minute or two a day can make such a big difference. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my blog!


  4. Alexis
    November 6, 2017 / 9:54 pm

    I love everything about self-care. I write and/or meditate when I’m not feeling up to it. I’m loving this post.

    • megansays
      November 6, 2017 / 9:57 pm

      Thank you so much for reading Alexis! Self care is so important!! xx

  5. November 10, 2017 / 8:45 pm

    These are great tips and self reminders!

    • megansays
      November 10, 2017 / 8:48 pm

      Thank you – and thank you for reading! x

  6. November 10, 2017 / 8:52 pm

    Great Post! As a wife, mom and grandma, I am very guilty of taking care of everyone first. I will certainly implement many of these tips for me.

    • megansays
      November 10, 2017 / 8:54 pm

      Yes!! Taking care of yourself is as important as taking care of others!

      Good luck and thanks for reading x

  7. November 10, 2017 / 9:37 pm

    All of these sound amazing. I need to do them right now.. I could use a little de-stress!

    • megansays
      November 10, 2017 / 11:20 pm

      Look after yourself – hope you’re ok <3

      Thank you for reading x

  8. November 11, 2017 / 3:25 am

    Love the tips! It is so important to take out some me-time for yourself and take proper care. What works for me is keeping at least half an hour in the morning after waking up and at night before going to bed to reflect back on the day and just gather my thoughts!

    • megansays
      November 11, 2017 / 8:43 am

      I take half an hour in the morning before getting up too! There’s nothing worse than rushing and getting stressed out! Especially first thing in the morning because it sets the tone for your day!

      Thank you so much for reading x

  9. Roland Legge
    December 3, 2017 / 6:17 am

    Great suggestions Megan! I have faced anxiety all my life. I know you’re suggestions work. I just signed up for your blog. I am looking forward to follow you! I hope you are having a great weekend. Blessings Roland ??

    • megansays
      December 3, 2017 / 3:17 pm

      Thank you so much Roland it’s lovely to hear from you and I hope you’re doing well 🙂 thanks for reading x

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